Sirius Pups Strike Back

Sirius Pups Band Together

It comes as no surprise to me that those associated with Sirius Pups have banded together and are working hard to discredit this blog. I knew this was going to happen, and to be fair, I don't really blame them, at least not the pups involved. I've been in a similar position to them in the past, and looked at Jyan with adoring eyes and ignored the little hints at the person he really is. The interesting thing is that PupBoss isn't saying a word about this blog, it's his "pups" that are coming to his defence.

What Sirius Pups Are Saying

The primary reaction is that I'm jealous of what they have, and that I'm talking rubbish. I find this laughable coming from some people who have only known PupBoss for as little as 4 months, never met him, or ever spent any appreciable time with him. They are trying to say that his ex partner of 5 years knows less about PupBoss than they do. That's fine, because at the end of the day he has them wrapped around his little finger and will continue to believe his bullshit until they finally see through it themselves.

A Sirius Pup Accusation

One of the other laughable accusations that has been made was that I tried to cheat on Jyan 3 years ago with Pup RedDevil using Growlr and Bearwww. Let's straighten a few things out here. First off, I have no idea who Pup RedDevil is, but that is beside the point. Early in Jyan and my relationship I deleted my profile and Bearwww and Bear411. I did this because Jyan was unhappy that I was using those applications to keep in contact with friends. I was fine with it, and told my friends I would keep contact on facebook. I remained off those applications for the rest of our relationship, only reactivating them once Jyan and I were through. It was then, and only then, that I started using Growlr.

Anybody who knows me would know how I feel about monogamy, and these claims from Pup RedDevil are just desperate lies thrown to draw attention away from Jyan. Again, I cannot blame these people from trying to protect him, but they are truly misguided in their actions, and only hope that in time they will come to see him for who he truly is.

A Reply To Sirius Pups

To make things clear to the pups in the Sirius Pups group; I have nothing against you. You want to indulge in pup play, be my guest. In fact, more power to you. It is not YOU that this blog is addressed to. If you have anything to say to me, don't be a coward and hide behind facebook and post on profiles that have blocked me. Reply right here to this blog, and make your accusations. I'm happy to address them.

This blog is designed to reveal the truth behind the handler and trainer at Sirius Pups; a man who presents himself as one thing, but is in fact the exact opposite. An egomaniac, narcissistic, self indulgent hedonist who is only interested in his own pleasure at the expense (and pain) of others.

Sirius Pups, A Deception

Why I Dislike Sirius Pups

This is something that I've been asked on a few occasions, and in principle I don't dislike the concept of Sirius Pups, or the organizer of that group, PupBoss. What I do dislike, and actively so, is the method that he uses to deceive people into believe that he is a good person and that Sirius Pups is a good place for them to be.

This blog has already begun to cause an uproar in the ranks of Sirius Pups, with many pups rushing to Jyan's aid. Of course, this was to be expected, but I must ask, have those how deny what I'm saying known Jyan for as long as I have?

My Time With PupBoss And Sirius Pups

 I was Jyan's partner for almost 5 years. In that time I have seen Jyan in all his guises; from a caring and loving partner, a cruel and nasty manipulator, and even to a partner abuser. I learned in our time together that Jyan is only interested in one person; himself. He hides this desire by appearing to be kindhearted to others, but he only does this to further his own agenda in achieving his own desires. Jyan will lie and manipulate to garner what he desires with no regard to what the cost will be to others. I have seen this occur time and time again with so many people I have lost count.

We are talking about a man who has driven others to seek professional psychological care, a man who has lied to my face about not cheating, a man who has turned good friends against me, and who initiated sexual encounters with people who I called close friends while I was in another room fully trusting that nothing untoward was going on.

I have seen people who I consider to be smart and educated fawn over this man and treat him like a deity. Some go so far to actually believe that Jyan can do and say no wrong. The manipulation and deceit is obvious to any outside willing to look, but when you are caught in his web of deceit, it is almost impossible to see.

Sirius Pups began approximately 2 years ago with my blessing. Jyan and I had discussed the formation of the pack, and he insisted that he wanted to do this as his own project; something that he could do for himself. We agreed on rules within the pack, primarily that it would be a training exercise and that there would be no sex involved. I learned later that sex was involved right from the start. He was lying to me right from the beginning and continued to lie about it throughout our remaining time together.

How My Relationship With Sirius Pups and PupBoss Ended

 To cut a long story short, our relationship ended when Jyan hit on a friend of mine and my friend brought my attention to it. Jyan had no idea that I knew this person, so when I confronted him about it, he told me it was a misunderstanding. I wanted to believe Jyan, so I accepted his response. While telling my friend he must have been mistaken, Jyan contacted him again and told him that I was monogamous but he was discrete. I had no further option to accept the truth; Jyan was cheating on me. When confronted a second time, Jyan denied it again. It was only when I showed him the evidence that he admitted that he didn't want to be in a monogamous relationship. Not that he had cheated, not that he had lied, not that he had manipulated, only that he wanted to have sex with others.

I am not adverse to an open relationship. What I am adverse to is dishonesty. This was not the first time that Jyan had been dishonest with me in our relationship, but it was going to be the last. While I said the words that it was over, Jyan knew very well that his actions had ended our relationship long before I had opened my mouth.

This is the honourable and good man that the Sirius Pup pack is defending. If this is how this man treated his partner, a man he professed to love, then how is he likely to treat those that are not as close to him? Do not be deceived by his smooth words and apparent acts of charity. Do not think that anything he does is out of the goodness of his heart. EVERYTHING he does is for his own benefit to the detriment of everyone around him.

An Offer to the Sirius Pup Pack

To anyone involved with Sirius Pups, I make you an offer. Feel free to comment on this blog. Open a discussion with me, the man who knows PupBoss better than you. If you have the guts, and want to know the truth, comment on this blog, and I will have an open discussion with you. Be warned, you won't like what you will read, but I will not hold back anything. The purpose of this blog is to finally expose a man who has gotten away with hurting too many people for far too long. It is time that he actions are brought to light and that people learn the truth that has been hidden for so long.